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Part 2 - Just in Case

4/7/2020

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A move to downsize is complicated - deciding what goes and what stays can be tricky. The luxury of a storage unit adds more complexity involving another decision - should it be stored because... well yes, just in case I might need it one day! The lackluster feeling for the old house made this job a mammoth task and despite my excitement to move, I was unable to get started on the job at hand.

The most notable advice I can offer in downsizing is to start way in advance and go through cupboard by cupboard, drawer by drawer and sort every-single-thing you own. Determine what you love and need, and which are the "just in case" pieces to store.  Get rid of the rubbish as you go so to lighten the burden during the move. I procrastinated and severely regretted it, forced at the eleventh hour to sort, make decisions AND move led to a drawn-out effort that we are still clearing up today (not helped by the COVID-19 disaster).  
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Stuff... Get it here... Everything must go!
My interior décor tastes had changed during the twelve years at the old house. The things I’d cherished and shipped across the Atlantic twenty years ago when I moved to the US were way past their loved-by date. I’d been ignoring them for years yet holding onto them… just in case! Finally accepting that I should look these chattels straight in the eye and let them go was liberating… it was also very dusty! At some point I clearly lost the ability or at least the inclination to dust! Let that be a red flag… if you don’t want to dust it, you probably don’t love it!
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A Louis XIV cabinet. Born in France, lived in England and traveled to the US. Respected but no longer adored as it once was and still deserves! Time for it to move on.
We hired movers who took beds to the flat and a few bulky pieces to the storage unit. Most everything else we did ourselves having the luxury of our business van, and well… not being ready! Whilst we saved money, we definitely didn’t save time… days turning into weeks and we’re still not entirely done! ​
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When the move goes on, the weariness sets in!
We have little to no furniture at the flat, just four of my (still loved) leopard dining chairs, the other two went into storage along with the dining table (it’s too big)! Nanna’s sideboard (also too big), photos, art, garden furniture, urns and statues and various other “just in case” pieces are tucked away in our storage unit where I can go and play with my memories should I feel the need, or perhaps gradually do away with them, time will tell! 
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My new play room... if I could find anything! Note to self... label the boxes and put the concrete shit at the back!
We had a garage sale to sell the things we weren’t keeping which included furniture, gardening tools (B was not planning on lifting another weed whacker for the foreseeable future) and when I asked him why he was selling the wheel barrow (which still looked brand new), he said that he had no intentions of doing any gardening for the rest of his life... hmm, I hadn’t noticed him doing much gardening for the preceding portion of his life!

Buyers could walk through the whole house and browse the wares which meant we didn’t have to cart everything out onto the driveway. We made out like bandits the first day, it was so exciting. We still had a lot of stuff leftover so planned on doing the same the following Saturday which was the beginning of the Corona Virus social distancing and stay-at-home protocol. Restaurants closed, and the world as we know it turned upside down. As a result, we didn't see a single person other than a couple of neighbors walking their dog! The old house remains like an abandoned garage sale. We're still moving stuff into storage although our momentum has waned, there is only so long a move can drag on!  
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Even an enticing toilet roll didn't bring the punters in!
We still have no furniture, whilst I keenly organized my new closet the furniture stores were starting to close. I bought a new headboard for the master bed and a pull-out cupboard shelf for my makeup after which all non-essential stores closed their doors.
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Whilst COVID-19 created some havoc on our move, it also facilitated more time in the new home to get organized.
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Finally landed the headboard I had been wanting for years. However, when you live in a flat it has it's disadvantages!!!
​I shall wait until the Corona Virus is behind us rather than risk buying furniture online… just in case, what if I don’t like it and I can’t send it back because they shutdown delivery businesses? In the meantime, our TV is on the floor, (Rigsby thinks this is for his benefit), we have only dining room chairs to sit on, a couple of patio chairs on the balcony and a few piles of stuff on the floor instead of tucked away nicely in a dresser. I write this post from the kitchen counter, which isn’t too shabby anyway!
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I also have my kitchen counter chairs, so at least we have somewhere comfortable to eat, which COVID-19 is ensuring we all do from the comfort of our homes!
​One thing we do have in abundance is cleaning tools and products which B managed to acquire prior to COVID-19. We have the latest vacuum, a tile steam cleaner, a mini chrome shop-vac, every Swiffer Sweeper on the market, why?... because just in case! If he sees a cleaning rag in the color gray, I guarantee he will come home with it! So, whilst we have no sofa to sit on, we sure as hell can clean and we will never run out of gray rags, just in case there is dust!
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B's happy place... among HIS new toys!
On that note, there will be no dust because I love everything in this flat, and apparently no furniture for quite a while… it’s for the best, just in case! 
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As always, thank you for stopping by
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7 Comments
Marsha Stephens
4/8/2020 11:05:22 am

LOL...I’m really thinking to myself that I didn’t see this outcome coming at all😱I just figured if you were that hung ho to move that all measurements and furniture was ordered for the new place before moving in...Also that you had gone through all your chatchkies way before...I’m just not there in my head... that is too stressful to me to even comprehend that you have no furniture in your new place🥴WOW... I wish you the best, and Frank always told me ( because I had a storage unit that he hated🤷‍♀️) if you don’t need it or see it within a year it needs to go... the cost of storing things that are “maybe” someday items overcomes the cost of just replacing it in the future if and when you may “want it again”... so I’m going to say a special prayer for you that indecision is at an end and you can begin anew🥰🙌🏻And order online,if anyone has a couch you’ve loved and the dimensions work do it... I cannot imagine not having a calming retreat when you come into your new space...Good luck to you my friend 😊😘

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Karen
4/8/2020 08:52:16 pm

Hi Marsha,

Your response made me LOL! I'm surprised I shocked you by my lack of enthusiasm to get on with what needed to be done, I guess I never realized the extent to which I was unmotivated by all my chatchkes, being so overwhelmed by it everything. It had all gone on for probably 7 years beyond when we should have moved on from that house. When you don't like something and you can't see any return in it, (I mean like give and take type of return) it is time to let go and move on otherwise it becomes toxic.Anyhow, living with minimal furniture is blissful right now, we manage and there is nothing to overwhelm us, no chatchkas to clutter my mind or vision, just simplicity and easiness and not a whole lot to dust! 😁💕💕

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4/11/2020 04:44:05 am

Holy sh**!!! Nobody saw this coming did they? We put a deposit on some new digs in Florida. Put ours on the market and then just like you said “the world turned Upside down”. Nobody was coming through. We bailed on the new house and took the hit on our deposit!! (Not to be confused with the down payment..but still!) anyways we headed back to our Canadian home where we are now in complete quarantine for 14 days. The weather is so flippen cold anyways. Lol. Well you sure took the leap into a minimalists life didn’t you!! LMAO! On the bright side - there is less to dust! At least when all the stores reopen and we get back to normal...or a new normal...you are going to know exactly what you want. So embrace this short lived lifestyle and carry on! You’ve got this.

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Karen
4/11/2020 09:37:51 am

Ha ha... I know, this is a crazy time! I am just thankful that we had this all sorted in the nick of time, I can't imagine anything worse than being stuck in our old house during this sad time... it was depressing enough under normal circumstances! Sounds like your timing was not as lucky, or perhaps it was, you might not want to be in the midst of this crisis in a new place where the risks are high. Stay safe (and warm) up there in the frozen north. There will be light at the end of this tunnel.
Thank you for stopping by the blog!
Karen xx

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